One of Reader's Digest's 50 Little Etiquette Rules is with 8 or fewer people at a table wait until all are served to do this

One of Emily Post's Ten Conversation Stoppers is asking a woman When are you this 3-letter word

In a traditional wedding recession the bride & groom bat leadoff then the flower girl & a young person with this job

It's often said to those with hay fever & columnist Miss Conduct says it's okay to say it to an atheist

Miss Manners says not Miss but this Joe Friday palindrome works for a woman old enough to do her own banking

At NYC's International Debutante Ball all girls are expected to wear gloves & gowns both of this color

Millennials prefer texts & think it's a waste of the recipient's time to leave this except maybe to say happy birthday

U.S. flag code says a flag in bad shape should be destroyed in a dignified way preferably by this method

Anna Post says sending a wedding invitation means you expect this so it's not nice to invite people you know can't come

The United Spinal Association says a wheelchair is part of the user's personal this--don't invade by touching it

Although some use regrets only with invitations this 4-letter abbreviated request is still common

(Kelly of the Clue Crew shows a place setting.) Set silverware on the table in the order of use--first course fork on the far left the knife on the right the spoon on the right of the knife & utensils for this go horizontally above the plate

Business Mag Inc. says to limit this punctuation mark to 1 per email or you appear childish & unprofessional

This young boy usually enters a wedding ceremony along with the flower girl

At a funeral the honorary ones of these leave the church ahead of the casket & the not-honorary ones

English speakers have been using this magic word since the 1300s & when you ask for something you should too

In a traditional table setting this should be placed so that the blade faces the plate

When doing this blot your palm if it's damp look the other person in the eye & use a firm but not crushing grip

When you're at the dinner table turn off this Apple device introduced in April 2010 even if you're winning at Fruit Ninja

You don't have to down your whole soda after you clink glasses for one of these ceremonial drinks; a sip will do

On an invitation this 4-letter abbreviation of a French phrase means please respond so please do

When seeking a job keep the cover letter to one page & this summary of your skills to one or 2 pages

Emily Post says to think of this as an aerosol spray of infection so if there's no tissue use the inside of your elbow

The family of the deceased should make sure that those chosen for this funeral job are physically up to the lifting

During the wedding ceremony this person holds the groom's wedding ring & the bride's bouquet